In any relation, when two people comes closer, they surely try to create boundaries for each other. If we observe all our relations closely, we will find that in that relation, we create boundaries for the other person and if that person (unknowingly) crosses “That Boundary”, we become angry & situation goes beyond control.
What exactly are these boundaries? Have we ever given a thought about it? By creating such boundaries in our relations, we actually oppose the right of other person to take own decisions, and eventually, we impose our decisions on that person…
In short, we disapprove another person’s Freedom… Which itself is “Inhuman”.
When someone’s freedom is been snatched away, the person becomes sad; and when in that same state of sadness boundaries are crossed, we become sad: Ultimately relation becomes Stressful!
If we respect each other’ freedom, then there will be no need & role of any boundaries in any relation. In other words, “Acceptance” is “Body” & “Freedom” is “Soul” to any relation.
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