In any relation, when two people comes closer, they surely try to create boundaries for each other. If we observe all our relations closely, we will find that in that relation, we create boundaries for the other person and if that person (unknowingly) crosses “that boundary”, we become angry & situation goes beyond control.
What exactly are these boundaries? Have we ever given a thought about it? By creating such boundaries in our relations, we actually oppose the right of other person to take own decisions, and eventually, we impose our decisions on that person…
In short, we disapprove another person’s Freedom… Which itself is “Inhuman”.
When someone’s freedom is been snatched away, the person becomes sad; and when in that same state of sadness boundaries are crossed by another person, we become sad.
If we respect each other’ freedom, then there will be no need & role of any boundaries in any relation.
In other words, “Acceptance” is “Body” & “Freedom” is “Soul” to any relation.
The family is a group of people who care about each other or depend on each other and consider themselves as such. It may be a nuclear family of parents, step-parents and children but may also include grandparents, step-children and half-siblings.
Our families absorb many of the stresses and strains from the outside world – and the pressures can boil over. Sometimes a personal problem, particularly in an adolescent, can overwhelm a family and there seems to be no clear way forward. When some problem or disappointment happens for one member the family group absorbs the impact, sometimes helping and sometimes hindering.
At other times changes within the family leave other members confused and angry or hurt. When a crisis or disappointment happens for one member the family group absorbs the impact, sometimes helping and sometimes hindering. Sometimes the help comes at a high price to one or more members.